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Raising Children God's Way
Scripture Passage:
Proverbs 22:6 Attached audio files:
Introduction: “The only way on God’s earth you will ever solve the problem of reaching the masses is by getting hold of the children.”
- IT MUST BE PRACTICAL - "Train"
- Train: [to drag] to guide the growth of by constant practice
- Actions (practice) are its Goal; training is not effective unless it develops a change in actions (Proverbs 20:11Even a child is known by his doings, whether his work be pure, and whether it be right.
See All...) - Actions are its Method; words unsupported by actions are ineffective
- IT MUST BE PERSISTENT - "Train"
- Training is Effected by Constant Practice
- Training by Definition Requires Consistency
- Not responding to every other offense
- Not controlled by emotions (Ephesians 6:4And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
See All...) - Not playing parents off one another
- Consistency is More Important Than Severity
- IT MUST BE POSITIVE - "up"
- Even the Negative Aspects are Positive in Final Goals (Hebrews 12:9-11 [9] Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
[10] For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.
[11] Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.
See All...) - Seeing the Good Defines the Evil (Isaiah 7:15Butter and honey shall he eat, that he may know to refuse the evil, and choose the good.
See All...) - Train the Attitudes Behind the Actions (2 Corinthians 8:12For if there be first a willing mind, it is accepted according to that a man hath, and not according to that he hath not.
See All...) - Continually Point Them Up
- Be optimistic in your dealings with the children
- Show them that they can do right
- Always point them to the Lord
- IT MUST BE PREVENTATIVE - "a child"
- Training is Prevention; Not a Cure
- Don’t wait until the problem is out of control
- Don’t hope the problem will go away – It’s not just a “stage”
- There is Much Power is Turning to God Early
- They need to seek God early (Proverbs 8:17I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.
See All...) - They need to be trained before the evil days come (Ecclesiastes 12:1Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them;
See All...) - If you do not discipline your child, life will; but by then it may be too late (Proverbs 15:31The ear that heareth the reproof of life abideth among the wise.
See All...) - IT MUST BE PRINCIPLED – “in the way”
- Not Simply a Set of Rules and Regulations; this may keep them under control, but it will not teach them how to live
- But How to Walk in the Way of God (Psalm 27:11Teach me thy way, O LORD, and lead me in a plain path, because of mine enemies.
See All...) - Teach them to think rightly about things
- Spend serious time with your children
- Play with them
- Work with them
- Instruct them
- Listen to them
- IT MUST BE PERSONAL – “that he”
- No Two Children are the Same (Psalm 139:14-17 [14] I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
[15] My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
[16] Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.
[17] How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!
See All...) - Training Must be Personalized
- Children Must be Allowed and Encouraged to be the Individual God has Made them to Be
- IT MUST BE PROPELLING – “should go”
- Seek More for Them Than you Had (Psalm 119:97-99 [97] O how I love thy law! it is my meditation all the day.
[98] Thou through thy commandments hast made me wiser than mine enemies: for they are ever with me.
[99] I have more understanding than all my teachers: for thy testimonies are my meditation.
See All...); the highest goal for a teacher is that his student go further than he has ever gone - Train Them to God on When you are Not There
Conclusion: The key challenge of training: it requires the character development of Mom and Dad. You must grow so that your children can know.
Proverbs 26:25
When he speaketh fair, believe him not: for there are seven abominations in his heart.