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The Ruin of a Flattering Tongue

The Ruin of a Flattering Tongue - Proverbs 26:28

INTRODUCTION

We have been led to believe that flattery makes others feel good and that it is a kind thing to do, but the picture presented by the scripture is contrary to this line of thinking. Flattery harms the person being flattered and the flatterer. In Proverbs 26:28, we read that "A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin." What we have been led to believe builds up, in reality, destroys. This truth is confirmed in Proverbs 29:5 where the Bible says, "A man that flattereth his neighbour spreadeth a net for his feet." Even the flatterer is harmed by flattery. In Job 17:5, we read "He that speaketh flattery to his friends, even the eyes of his children shall fail." Flattery is harmful to all who are involved.

DEVOTIONAL THOUGHTS

  • (For smaller children) Because they hated Daniel, presidents and princes flattered Kind Darius into signing a law that couldn't be changed (Daniel 6:3-9). The king was hurt because Daniel had to be cast into a den of lions. God saved Daniel, and the evil men were cast to the lions.
  • What are some ways in which a person could be harmed by be-ing flattered? How could flattery set that person up for pride and false confidence?
  • How does flattery work to destroy a person when by all appearances it seems to build them up? What are some examples of how this works?

PRAYER NEEDS

  • Ask the Lord to show you how harmful flattery can be.
  • Ask God to protect you from both sides of flattery.

HYMN

Yield Not to Temptation

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Daily Proverb

Proverbs 28:5

Evil men understand not judgment: but they that seek the LORD understand all things.